The Problem

Responding to moments of great tension

This website is dedicated to addressing a fundamental human failing in all of our lives, one that leads to untold personal anguish.†

The human landscape is littered with the fallout from our inability to inquire into another point of view during moments of great tension.††

Consequently, this seemingly simple shortcoming can turn irritation into trauma, a slip of the tongue into an intense argument, a letting-off-of-steam into a personal attack, etc..

While this is an easy problem to identify, it is not a simple matter to correct.†† Yet, there is much that can be done;† the approach discussed here is a first step of a potentially exhilarating and enriching journey.

It begins with three words.†